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Master one-on-one communication

interpersonal-communicationskillsetup L164
Tibsfox/gsd-skill-creator
What it does

Build and repair relationships through communication

Best for

Improving one-on-one relationships through deeper listening and strategic sharing

Inputs
  • · relationship context
  • · communication goal
  • · feedback to give
Outputs
  • · supportive message
  • · self-disclosure plan
  • · boundary negotiation
Preconditions
  • · ongoing relationship
  • · reasonable trust established
Failure modes
  • · Mismatched self-disclosure depth (one person shares deeply, other stays surface)
  • · Defensive climate created by judgment or control
Trust signals
  • · Transactional communication model
  • · Social Penetration breadth/depth
  • · Johari Window
  • · Relational dialectics tension navigation
  • · Gibb supportive vs defensive climate